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Simo se "fight-or-flight" sengcondvo yalabo labakhatsatekile singahle sibe lula futsi sitivakale ngaso sonkhe sikhatsi. Ngako-ke, bantfu labaphakeme ku-Kukhatsateka batsi babone kutsi intfo lesongelako itawuhlala yenteka. Bangahle batfutfumele ngetimo letitsite noma batsi basabe nje ngebantfu labavamile. Batsi batsintfwe, bafutfumalele, futsi balukhuni. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphansi ku-Kukhatsateka batsi bahlale baphansi futsi bangabi nesaba.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme ku-Intfukutselo bazifutfumele nangabe tintfo atihambi ngendlela yabo. Batsi batihlonipha kakhulu nalokufanele baphatseke ngendlela lelungile futsi batsi banemona nalokuvuna nangabe batsi batfolwa. Lelizinga lilinganisa intfo lekulungele kutsi utivele ulukhuni; noma umuntfu lotsi utibonakalisa intfukutselo nesihawu kutitfola kumuntfu kutsi uvumelana nabo. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi ativuki futsi alukhuni ngaso sonkhe sikhatsi.

Lelizinga lilinganisa intfo lekulungele kutsi utivele udzabukile, utihawukele, futsi udvudvutsekile. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme babonakala kutsi batisebenta ngetandla futsi batsi bacine bahlulwa kusungula tintfo letinsha. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphansi abavame kutsi batfole letifundvo tekudzabuka.

Bantfu labatekutizwela batsi batsintfwe kakhulu nangabe labanye batsi babuka. Kukhathalela kwabo ngekukhanjukelwa nalokuphoxwa kubabangele kutsi batihawukele futsi bangabi nesikhatsi lesihle nabanye. Batsi batjabuliseke ngekubukisa futsi batsintfwa ngekucabanga. Letetsemba labo kutsi labanye batsi bababuke noma bababuke phansi tikulu futsi atekwati, kodvwa kuhawa kwabo futsi kungabi nesikhatsi lesihle kungahle kube kuhlakanipha kwesiphrofetho sekutibonakalisa. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi abavami kutsi batibone kutsi wonkhe umuntfu utibuka futsi atibonele bona. Batsi abatisebenti kahle letimo temphilo.

Bantfu labatekubhadala batsi batfole kulangata lokukhulu futsi tingatfukatseka letingahle temukela kunzima kutsi balahle. Batsi bavame kutsi batfole letintfo letifushane futsi batfole umvuzo kunemiphumela yalesikhatsi lesidze. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi abavami kutsi batfole letintfo letinkhulu, letingaholeli kubi futsi abatfole kutsi batilalele kutsi batifakele kakhulu.

Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphakeme ku-Kutifaka Emcabangweni batfole kuhlupheka, kudvudvutsekela, futsi batifakele tintfo tenkhingo nangabe basengcindezini noma baphatsekile. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi batfole kutsi bahlale baphansi, banekuthembeka, futsi bacabange kahle nangabe baphatsekile.

Bantfu labanobungane batsandza labanye bantfu ngekuvuleka futsi bakhombisa tilwimi letinhle letivelele kwabanye. Batentela bungani masinyane futsi kulula kubo kutsi bakhe bungani lobusondzelene, lobunene. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphansi kuBungane abatishisi futsi abatinetisi, kodvwa abatsi bahlasele labanye futsi babonakale bavalekile futsi bangahlonipheki.

Bantfu labatsandza kuhlanganyela batfole inkampani yalabanye ngekujabulisa nekutfutfukisa. Batitsandza imimoya yema-crowds. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphansi batsi batsintfwe kakhulu ngetimfutfo, futsi ngako-ke bavame kuhlanganyela, emasango etikhulu. Abatsi bahlale nabantfu ngekukhuluma kodvwa batfole sikhatsi sakhe sokuhlanganyela sifushane futsi lesiphezulu semuntfu lonetimfanelo lephakeme kuleli zinga.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuKutfutfukisa batsandza kukhuluma bavele bavele, batfwale, futsi bahole imisebenti yelabanye. Bavame kutsi babe baholi bemagumeni. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi bavame kutsi bangakhulumi kakhulu futsi bavumele labanye kutsi bahole imisebenti yemagumeni.

Bantfu labanemphilo bayahamba, bahlala baphila. Batfole kakhulu, banemandla, futsi bayasheshisa, futsi bahlanganyela emitimbeni leminingi. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi kuleli zinga batsi bahambe kancane futsi bakhululeke, bakhululeke.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga batsi batsintfwe batsi batfole titfutfuko letikhulu tekwenta kahle. Batitsandza kukhanya lokukhulu nekutihlanganisa lokukhulu. Batfole kutsi batsatse tingoti futsi batfutfuke. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi batsintfwa yimisindvo kanye nemtfutfuko futsi batfole ekubhaleni kutfutfuka.

Lelizinga lilinganisa titfutfuko letinhle nemicabango, hhayi titfo letimbi (letihlangene nesigaba se-Neuroticism). Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga bavame kutsi batfole titfutfuko letinhle letinyenti, kuhlanganisa kujabula, kutfutfuka, kuhlakanipha, nekutfokota. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi abavami kutsi batfole letimfutfo letinhle, letiphakeme.

Kubantu labane-umboniso, umhlaba wemphilo uvame kuba ngumtfombo wesandla netisebenti. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga basebentisa imicabango njengesandla sekuveta umhlaba lothokozisa kakhulu, lowente kahle kakhulu. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphezulu kuleli zinga batfola nganyakato yonkhe kunemicabango.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga batsandza buhle, nome buhle basiko noma bemvelo. Bantfu batsatfwa futsi bacinezeleka kubuciko netimphilo temvelo. Abaphatseki ngeso lobuciko kodvwa labanye bangahle batfola. Emaphuzu lalinganisa kakhulu akukhombisi bubuhle, letitja temvelo, futsi atisemi kutisita emisebenti yekubeka ubuciko. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphansi atihambi phambili ekumangaleni kwetintfo letibukekayo futsi atitsandzi kubuciko.

Bantfu labane-Emotionality banekuvuleka kuzeva futsi batsandza imicabango yabo. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphezulu kuleli zinga abatihloniphi imicabango yabo futsi abatibonakali kahle kumicabango yabo.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga batsandza kuhlola tintfo letintsha, bahambe tihlandla letikude, futsi batokholwa tiphupho letehlukene. Batfole kutsi kuphila emhlabeni kunetimo letishisa futsi banokuhle, futsi batsembe ematfuba lamasha. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphansi kuleli zinga batsintfwa ngekubhadalela letishintjako futsi batsandza timfanelo letatiwako.

Kuhlakanipha netintsandvo tekubeka ubuciko tiyimphimbo lebili letibalulekile, letikhanyako emntfwini wekuvuleka kuhlola kwetintfo letintsha. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuKuhlakanipha batsandza kudlala nemicabango. Banekucabanga kuvulekele letintfo letintsha nelabhalile, futsi batsandza kuphikisana ngetinkhulumo temicabango. Batfola ema-challenges ekucabanga njenge-Riddles, puzzles, naletipho temcoka wetinkhulumo. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu laphansi kuKuhlakanipha batsandza kunakekela kutsi babhalile ngekufundza noma tintfo kunemicabango. Abatsandzi emano asecabanga asekucabanga njengetipho telitsemba. Kuhlakanipha akufanele kumetane nekutihlakanipha. Kuhlakanipha kusitayela sekucabanga, kodvwa akusiso sitayela sekucabanga setitalente, noko labatfola emaphuzu aphezulu kuKuhlakanipha batfola emaphuzu lalinganiselwa letipho teticala futsi batfola ngalokulinganiselwa kunebantfu labanetipho letiphansi.

Liberalism yengcondvo iyalelwa kutsi ulungele kutsi uphikise authority, umtsetfo, naletintsandvo letivamile. Kulicinisweni laso lelimcoka, i-Liberalism yengcondvo ingaba ikhombisa kuhhosha kwetimilo temtsetfo, kutifela labaphikisi bemtsetfo, futsi batsandza kuhlukana, imbhangwandlala, nemtsetfo. Labo labasekela umtsetfo batsandza kulondeka futsi batfole kutsi indlela lencono kwekumelana neliciniso letibambelela kwemtsetfo. Liberalism yengcondvo kanye nekukholwa kwabopolitiki akufani, kodvwa kuyacaca futsi kuyachubeka ekukholweni kwetikholwa tabanye.

Umuntfu lonetsemba leliphezulu ucabanga kutsi bantfu labanyenti bancono, bathembekile, futsi banetinhloso letinhle. Bantfu labatekutsemba babuka labanye njengebantfu labaneletinye titfo, labanobuqili, futsi labangahle babekete.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga aboni sidingo sekutsi babe nemoya wokuhusha noma wente bugedla nakahlangana nabanye ngako-ke bangachubeka kahle, babone intfo ngelihlo letinyanga, futsi bavele basho bavele basho. Bantfu labanephasi kuleli zinga bakholelwa kutsi kunekudingeka kwekukhwabanisa kanye nekubetela emphakathini kubudlelwane. Bantfu bayawakhutsata kulula kakhulu kubona labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga. Bantfu babona kutsi kunzima kutsi babangane labafanele labatfola emaphuzu laphansi kuleli zinga. Kufanele kubonakale kutsi labanephasi abalinganiselwe noma bangakhombisi live; batfole kutsi banemfundvo letinhle, banganali bugedla, futsi babhace kakhulu ekutjeni labanye bangamemukeli sikhatsi sonkhe.

Bantfu lababekezelayo bata kufuna kusita labanye bantfu bakhululekile. Ngako-ke, batsi bagcinele kutsi basite labo labaswele kutsi bafinyelele kwetsembeka. Bantfu lababekezelayo bakholelwa kutsi kwenta tintfo talabanye kuhlala kungumtfombo wentelekeleka kunekutsi kube kuhlupheka. Bantfu labatekutiphatsa kahle kuleli zinga abatijabulisi ngokusita labo labaswele. Titfo tekusita tibonakala kutinselelela kunekutsi kube ngetsembeka.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga abatitsandzi timo tembambano. Batsandza kakhulu kunikela noma kunika intsandvo yabo lephansi ukuze bahlale kahle nabanye. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphansi kuleli zinga banemphumelelo ekutfutfukiseni labanye ukuze bafike tindlela tabo.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga abatitsandzi kubeka kutsi bancono kunalabanye bantfu. Kwezinye timo lesikhatsi lesifanele leli lihawu lisuka ekuntweni kwetihawu letiphansi noma kutsi baba nekutihlonipha lokuphansi. Noko, bantfu labanephasi labanye batfola kutsi kutihlonipha lokuphansi akutihlosi. Bantfu labanye labatsandza kutsi babonele kutsi bancono futsi bancono kunalabanye bantfu babonakala njengebantfu labatfukutselako nalabanye.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga banesihawu futsi bayakhathalela. Batsintfwa buhlungu balabanye bantfu ngekutsi babekhutsate futsi batsintfwe lusizi. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphansi kuleli zinga abatiphatsi kahle ngebuhlungu bebantfu. Batikhukhulela kakhulu ekutenteni tinqumo tetimphilo ngesisekelo seliciniso. Bakukhathalela kwetinhlawulo netetsembeko kunekuhawukela.

Kukholelwa Kutikhona kuchaza kukholwa emandleni akho kutsi utawenta tintfo. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme bakholelwa kutsi banekhono (letisebenta kahle), sifutfukiso, nekulawula kahle kutsi utawenta kahle. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi abatihluphi kutsi bayasenta kahle, futsi bangahle babe nemicabango yekutsi abaphatsi kahle imphilo yabo.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme ekuhleliseni bahlalisekile kahle. Batsi batsandza kuphila ngekuma-routine netikhatsi. Batenta tincwajana futsi benta tihlelo. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi batihlalise kodvwa bahlukanisiwe.

Lelizinga libonakalisa emandla emuntfu kutiphatsa ngekwesive nesibopho. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga banemandla ekutiphatsa ngetimfanelo. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi batibuka kutiphatsa, emitsetfweni, kanye nemitsetfo njengaletibhidliza. Bangabonakala ngulabanye njengabangenabuciko noma banganakekeli.

Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuleli zinga bahluteka kakhulu kutfola umphumelelo. Intfutfuko yabo yekufuna kutsi bahlonishwe njengabaphumeleli ibagcina batfutfukisa ekutsimbeni kwabo imigomo yabo lephakeme. Bavame kutsi banemandla lakhulu ekuphila, kodvwa emaphuzu laphakeme kakhulu angaba ngematikhatsi kakhulu futsi ajwayele imisebenti yabo. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi bayawuthokoza kutsi batfutfuke ngetindleko letincane kakhulu, futsi bangahle babukeke ngulabanye njengabalulama.

Kutiphatsa Ngekwesive-loko labanye bantfu bakubita kutsi kumandla-ekuchaza kukhono kutsi uhlale kunento noma tintfo letidzidzete futsi tekuphila letitindzima kuze utente. Bantfu labanemandla ekutiphatsa ngekwesive bakhone kutinqoba tindzaba letidvubekile kuze batente futsi bahlale endleleni nome batijabhile. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi batsandza kuhlalele phansi futsi bakhombise kutsi baphumule bavame kwehluleka kuphumelela nangabe umsebenti lowutsandza kakhulu.

Kukholwa kutsi utawenta kuchaza emandla ekucabanga ngalokutawenteka ngaphambi kwekwenta. Bantfu labatfola emaphuzu laphakeme kuKukholwa kutsi utawenta batsatsa sikhatsi sabo nangabe benta tinqumo. Bantfu labatekutfole emaphuzu aphansi bavame kutsi batsi bente tintfo letingcondvo tabo tingakhombisi kutiva emandla etindleko letincono futsi tingahle tivumele tindlela letincono.